Tuesday, August 6, 2013

People should live together before they get married!

What is Cohabitation? According to the Oxford dictionary, Cohabitation means a couple live together and having a sexual relationship without being married. Nowadays, many people decide to live together before married. It becomes a normal thing to couples. Should they live together before being married? There are three advantages of better to living together before they get married.

First, living together before marriage would be a good practice to learn to live together. Couples can start knowing each other closer and more personal. They would learn what the partner likes and dislikes. Even though it's a simple thing, if they know and emphasize in a little detail they may get more a romantic moment from partner. Also learning each other habits is the good way to keep relationship on when they move in a same place. Couples have much time to spend together, so they can be comfortable when they act. Moreover, couples can enjoy their activities of house works together because there's no own duty.

Second, couples don't have to waste a huge money for wedding ceremony. Love or not doesn't depend on the value of money that its spending on wedding party. If it's love, it's love. Wedding is just announcing to people know that you are marriage with someone.  However, marriage doesn't guarantee you won't divorce your partner. Therefore, living together before get married can help couples determine if they can spend the rest of their life together.

Finally, living together would avoid a drama and stress of divorce from other people. Once you get married and then you are divorce, the following effects are stress and drama in society. Many people would talk about you and wonder about the reasons what cause you divorce. So many couples get stress and a hard time after divorce. So, living together before married doesn't have a piece of paper to guarantee their relationship.

Opponents of living together before married says that it is not appropriated to traditional of marriage. Traditionally couples don't live together before being married. However, marriage is just an idea of life commitment with a partner.

Inconclusion, people live together before they get married would be the best way to them for planing their future. Therefore, couples should learn each other deeply and understand cohabitation as a partner of life.


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